There are no cute sayings, no picturesque words, or grandiose statements we can make to ease the pain of someone who has just lost their beloved dog. Shared grief is often in silence; empathy imparted in stories of sweet memories, and sympathy given in a thoughtful card, picture, or gift. We experienced this when our Kokeano succumbed to cancer this past January. The outpouring of love from others was a type of comfort in and of itself.
Shortly after Kokeano’s death we learned of Jake and Charlie’s passing. Jake was signed up for daycare even before we opened! He, like Kokeano, died of cancer; he was far too young when he died. Jake defined the faithful dog; always happy, playful, and loving. We loved him dearly. Charlie was known to many of you whom he greeted when you came in. The elderly beagle had the run of the place, as well as our hearts. Old age finally claimed him.
Roxanne defied old age. She was living her second dog life – living nearly twice as long as the average bulldog. She, like Charlie, was also there to greet many of you. Roxanne was not just a member of the Fetch ‘n Fun family, she was a member of the Joakim family as well. Her owner, Andy, is John’s brother. On Monday, Roxanne was having an average day at Fetch ‘n Fun when she suddenly took ill. Andy came and rushed her to the vet. Shortly afterwards we received the shocking news that she was gone. The loss feels…..raw.
These are but a few of the dogs we have loved and lost and this is perhaps the hardest part of our profession. We take each dog into the Fetch ‘n Fun family, and love them deeply….losing them is felt deeply as well. Deep breath…..I must remind myself of all the love and goodness these dogs have brought into our lives, each moment, every slobbery kiss; a gift.
When Kokeano passed, we received so many wonderful cards, calls, hugs, and gifts. Two types of gifts stand out to us. A number of people donated money to non-profit dog related services in Kokeano’s name. This was such an incredible honor and so meaningful to us that it is something we now do for others. The second gift was a hand drawn picture of Kokeano by Tucker’s mom, Christine. The picture captured Kokeano’s presence, and means so much to us. I had it framed at our local, trusty framer, Claude, at The Framer’s Workshop. The picture hangs right near my desk, bringing many sweet memories to mind.
“But some animals, like some men, leave a trail of glory behind them. They give their spirit to the place where they have lived, and remain forever a part of the rocks and streams and the wind and sky.” -Marguerite Henry
Jake, Charlie, Roxanne, Kokeano, as well as Archie, Sadie, Shredder, Molly, and many more; you will remain forever a part of our lives!
